“All borders – the lines and symbols on a map, the fretwork of walls and fences on the ground, and the often complex enmeshments by which we organise our lives – are explanations of identity. We construct borders, literally and figuratively, to fortify our sense of who we are; and we cross them in search of who we might become.”
Frances Stonor Saunders
The author of this fascinating take of borders also asks, “What threshold rites do you perform before you leave home? Do you appease household deities, or leave a lamp burning in your tabernacle? Do you quickly pat down pockets or bag to check you have the necessary equipment for the journey? Or take a final check in the hall mirror, ‘to prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet’?”* . Borders can be the mental as as well as the physical lines we draw, not just the lines on a map dividing ‘us’ from ‘them’; and the conceptual borders which divide ‘our community’ from those not belonging to it; but also the personal lines we all draw between ‘I’ and ‘you’, and beyond that between ‘I’ and everyone else. These are often not the same borders and might cross each other in complex ways. Such is the nature of identity which may be complex and even contradictory. Because as well as dividing us from others and hemming us safely in, it aso separates us from creative opportunities both for personal and community development.
Seeing borders in this way as both necessary and natural for our identities, but also as constraints preventing us from living adventurously, puts them in a context which allows us to accept them as fluid entities, to place ourselves in the world, or worlds, that we inhabit as well as recognising other worlds as valid and potentially inhabitable. People have always crossed borders. National borders, as absolute as they may seem to those living within them, have often previously been lines in the sand, washed away by the tides of history. The cultures they have nurtured, often across borders, have also shifted through past ages merging and enriching each other but also conflicting defensively when people feel threatened. Identities, whether national, racial, religious, cultural, sexual, and a range of other categories from the substantial to to the ephemeral, are not things we can escape, because we need to know who and what we are. So however arbitrary they may be, they cannot simply be dismissed. But that is not the same as regarding them as absolute. The fact that we need to own an identity does not mean that it cannot change, or cannot include others who may have seemed not to be included. Nor does it imply that different identities cannot be recognised even when they are not our identities.
These are complex issues, not only because identities overlap and shift, but also because the act of self-definition creates psychological lines of division beween ‘us’ and ‘them’ which the breaking down of physical, legal or conceptual barriers do not necessarily remove. But recognising complexity, and living within our identities, both chosen and inherited, while stretching their limits and allowing others to do the same, not only removes anxieties which lead to conflicts, but also enables us to live as ultimately we have always lived, in ways that share what we value with others and receive from them what they have to share, without denying ourselves any sense of who we are and the meaning that identities give to our lives.
*London Review of Books 38.5 , March 2016